Brad & Tami
from Tandem Marriage
Reduce Conflict and Rebuild Connection
in Your Marriage… Starting Today!
Tandem Marriage
Practical tools in addition to over 30 years of experience in helping couples to thrive!
We Practice What We Preach
We know what it takes to make a marriage work because we have been doing it for over 40 years. And this, despite that fact that we have 13 divorces in our families. TRANSLATION: We were unintentionally setup to fail, but we did the work needed to have a thriving marriage, and we KNOW it works! How many marriage coaches can say they have over 40 years of success and experience in thier own marriage? Yes, that's us in the picture!
At Tandem Marriage, we can provide you with tools, resources, and many years of experience to help your marriage overcome the negative impacts of life — we can help you THRIVE! Can we really help you find your happy place as a couple once again? Yes, we can, and we do this for people just like you every day.
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Credentials Don't Hurt Either
One of us is a retired Licesned Marriage & Family Therapist, and the other one of us is an ordained pastor (we will let you guess which one is which). First, since marriage was God's idea, doesn't it make sense to place your trust in someone who knows what God intended for marriage? Second, one of us brings a Master's level education in human relationships. Who else has these credentials?
This is why there is not another team like us. And this is also what continually motivate us, day after day, and year after year, to keep innovating new ways to help others thrive in their marriages.
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We Have Helped Thousands of Couples…
Many of them just like you. One comment we often hear is this: "If you understood how bad things are in our marriage, we aren't sure you could still help us." Trust us, we can still help. We have helped couples work through everything from communication struggles, the stresses of starting a family, parentling as a team, major life changes, and infidelity. This requires a highly individualzed approach, not a one-size-fits-all approach.
Because you have very unique needs for your marriage, we have created a great deal of videos, articles, free tools, podcasts, and so much more to help. Once someone has heard about our marriage coaching from someone they know, they want marriage coaching from us. Understood, and thank you. But, there are many more options if marriage coaching does not work for you. Just use the blue "Start improving your marriage today" button below to see how easy it can be to take your marriage to the next level.
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If you are tired of conflict, misunderstanding, feeling distant, or you simply want to thrive again, you can start improving your marriage today in just 3 simple steps.
What people are saying about us…
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My husband has known Brad and Tami since he was a teen. Both have guided him through many challenging stages in his early 20s. We didn’t have to think twice when we chose Brad to marry us, and both him and Tami to provide premarital counseling. Often times there is a stigma to have a perfect marriage, Brad and Tami taught us how to embrace the imperfections and make our marriage perfect for "team us." Through their guidance, real life experiences, and books, we have learned the necessary building blocks to a successful marriage.
— Joey & Maloree Nigg —
Thank you for helping us get to a healthy place in our relationship. We are grateful for all the tools we have gained from both of you, and it’s rewarding to see that they actually work when we choose to use them. God bless you both and May you continue to do His good work!
— Kyle and Donna Deeters —
Tandem Marriage Coaching with Brad and Tami Miller has been a game-changer for my wife and I! Even after 29 years of marriage, we finally committed to seeking professional support. We wish we would have done this decades ago! The healing and growth that we both have experienced is due largely to Brad's and Tami's insights, wisdom, guidance, tender care, and advice. This marriage coaching service is worth every penny of the investment and we would enthusiastically recommend anyone, at any stage of marriage, to commit to it!
— Pastor Brian Burson, Sandals Church —
First and foremost, we want you to know that our marriage is healthy and happy in ways that just keep getting better because of the impacts that Brad & Tami have had on our marriage. God is truly leading us one day at a time. Sometimes it is hour by hour or even minute by minute. But thankfully we learned well from you. You effectively equipped us with the knowledge, skills, and tools to grow healthier despite the inevitable hurts and challenges of the past.
We are forever changed.
— Guy & Mary Eggrichs —
We love you two! You're an insane blessing in our lives. It was great to have a few more laughs in our last conversation- crazy that you said we would be able to laugh again one day and I didn't believe it, but we are getting there. The tools you've given us have helped us grow together, thank you for the follow-ups.
You both helped me to see that I was running to the wrong things (the easy ones) and away from the right ones (the more difficult ones). That just made things worse and more difficult in marriage. I know better now and will work on this.
I have real hope in a healthier, stronger relationship! We love you guys, thank you for everything you do for us. Praying God blesses you.
— Dillan & Kelli Anders —
If you want to read more about cost versus benefit in your marriage, click here. Otherwise, use the blue button above to get some ideas of where to get started to improve your marriage.
If you continue in your relationship without any changes, and without help, you can only cross your fingers and hope for a good outcome.
HINT: Don't hold your breath!
Here's what you can expect on your own…
Continue in Conflict
Unresolved conflict in your marriage and in your home will suck the life out of you! Furthermore, unresolved conflict will cost you in terms of increased stress, lower productivity, loss of peace of mind, and money spent on things that don't help! It does not have to be this way. It's time to deal with your pride so you can get help.
Spend Loads of $$$!
Not taking care of your marriage is like failing to maintain your car or allowing the plumbing in your house to leak for years and years. You can get away with that kind of neglect only for a short time before major repairs will need to be made, and major repairs ALWAYS cost more.
Fail at Marriage
Choosing NOT to make a positive change in your marriage will make everyone in your home unhappy. EVERYONE. And don't fool yourself into thinking you can keep your misery a secret. It is always better to fix marriage problems than to live with them; why would anyone choose to live with marriage problems when good help is available?