We are a husband and wife team who can help you right where you are with your marriage. We have the experience to help with your marriage whether you have drifted way off track or you just need some resources and encouragement to keep you from drifting off track. Let’s love our spouses like we mean it!

"In your marriage, you will either be intentional or you will drift. And the choice is yours."

We have been married through all of the ups and the downs of life for over 30 years and we can tell you this, marriage is beautiful chaos. Marriage can be both amazing and hard, sometimes at the same moment! We know what you’re going through because we’ve been there too.

Tandem Marriage is a marriage community and website that offers loads of free marriage help from us and insight from our TM community as well. We love to share insights from our years of marriage as well as the hundreds and hundreds of couples we have had the privilege of helping over the years. We will share books that we have written, our blog posts, Pinterest and Instagram pics, as well as Facebook and Twitter. Oh yeah, and we are also in the process of writing several more books! The bottom line is this: you ask your questions and we will answer. We may answer directly, in our blog, or in our books, but we will answer. We are here to help you have a great marriage!

We also love to coach and mentor married couples, which we can do in person or via video chat. There are several seminars that we offer as well.

And, if there are resources, picture quotes, ebooks, etc. that you would like to see, please let us know using our contact form or our email link at the bottom of this page. We would love to provide those helpful tools for you in your marriage journey. We are listening. Try us out, you'll see!

We are adding new content to our blog regularly, and new social media content daily so keep coming back!

Until then, cheers!

What We Believe…

We believe that marriage can be great! Yes, even your marriage.

We believe that marriage is the foundational building block of society and when marriages fail so do families and communities.

We believe that you cannot ride a tandem bike without laughing together. (Unless you are in the middle of an argument. In that case, riding a tandem bike would not turn out well.)

We believe that God ordained marriage for a purpose.

We believe that if we can overcome our challenges that you can too!

We believe that marriage was designed to be a monogamous, lifelong commitment—physical, emotional, and spiritual—intended to glorify God and for the nurturing of any children a couple may be blessed with.

We believe that you don't have to settle for a marriage you can live with. You can have a marriage that you cannot picture yourself without.

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