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PRO TIP: Read each article as a couple (about one per week) and use the article as a discussion starter between the two of you. Most of these articles include some discussion questions that are a perfect way for you and your spouse to dig a little deeper.

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Life Will Throw You Some Curveballs – Can Your Marriage Survive Them?
by Brad Miller

As married couples, we all have two lives that we will live. There is the trouble-free dream-life that we planned together with our fiancé leading up to the day we married and for a time thereafter, and there is the life full of curveballs that we will inevitably need to deal with. Curveballs are unexpected, or unplanned for, situations that can push us to our limits both individually and as a couple. Furthermore, if we don't know how to…

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Why We Wrote a Marriage Book That Everyone Needs but Nobody Wants
by Brad Miller

There is a great deal of solid information and teaching out there from some expert marketers on how to market products and services to people just like you. These experts in the field of marketing say that marketers (this includes us since we have books/products to sell) need to survey their potential market to find out where their customers are in life (not location), what they want, and to learn the language they use. Once that information is gathered, a good marketer can create a product specifically targeted to a group that…

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Apologies, Forgiveness, Grace, and Love in Marriage
by Brad Miller

We get asked many many questions about how apologies, forgiveness, grace, love, and expectations should all work together. For example: Does every apology from one spouse need the forgiveness of the other spouse to bring closure? And, if so, how do you get your spouse to forgive after you apologize? And what about this one: Isn't grace and forgiveness really the same thing? To answer these questions well, let's go back to the beginning – the beginning of people…

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​How Thinking the Best of Your Spouse Will Benefit Your Marriage
by Brad Miller

Let's walk through a little example. Let's assume that your spouse had a misunderstanding with your mother-in-law—again. You assume the worst (maybe you truly believe your reaction is warranted) and you tell your spouse, "I can't believe you did this again! You always have these misunderstandings with my mom!" Your spouse is trying to explain what actually happened, but you don't really want to listen. And since your mind is already made up about what happened…

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