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MEMBERS VIDEO TOOLBOX (for Marriage Heroes 🦸🏻‍♀️🦸🏼‍♂️)

Welcome Tandem Marriage heroes! We refer to you as "marriage heroes" because you are taking intentional steps to raise the bar on marriages. We believe that for every married couple that works on their marriage, several more marriages are impacted. So, let's do this!

These are the most popular classes we have taught over the years. We KNOW you will find them useful. While these are all very needed and practical relational tools, it is our hope that they make more room in your life and your relationship for God's peace, grace, and love. That is the ultimate win.

P.S. We recorded most of these in our home office/studio, and we truly want you to feel invited into our home (or maybe you are inviting US into YOUR home) as we talk together about these important topics. So, pull up a few chairs or a sofa, grab your favorites snacks and beverages, and let's dig in to help you have a thriving marriage! We won't eat your snacks, we promise.

P.P.S. If you need help or have any questions, please email us using our contact form here. Yes, you will get an answer directly from us. We want to help you succeed! We win when you win. 👩🏻‍🤝‍👨🏼❤️

Preview Video

Do you want to know what to expect if you buy 3-months access to our Member's Only Video Toolbox? Watch the video below where we give an overview of what you can expect. Also, because we have been adding 1-2 additional videos each month, we will regularly be updating this list of marriage lessons that you will have access to once you purchase a 3-month access code using the button above.

  • Triggers in Marriage Series - 4 videos w/ worksheeets.
    • Triggers Overview
    • Understanding Your Triggers
    • Understanding Your Spouse's Triggers
    • Putting This All Together
  • Marriage Toolbox Series - 8 videos w/ worksheets.
    • Time-Outs in Marriage (to manage conflict better)
    • Share Needs, Not Demands (communication skills)
    • 10 Things That Are True (conflict management tool)
    • Timing in Marriage (conflict management tool)
    • Listen, Fix, or Be Ridiculous (communication skills)
    • Listen To What Your Spouse Is Saying About Themself (communication skills)
    • Ground Rules For Fighting Fair (conflict management tool)
    • 80/20 Listening (communication skills)
  • Marriage Enrichment Series - 3 videos w/ worksheets
    • Resist The Drift: Managing The Things That Pull You Apart
    • Boundaries With Family: Dealing With Difficult Family Members at Holiday and Family Gatherings
    • 5 Conversations That Every Married Couple Should Be Having

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