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How to use this blog – If you aren't sure where to start reading on our blog, check out our START page (linked here) which lists some of our most popular blog articles, as well as some of our most popular resources. Otherwise, just start reading right where you are (below) and know that we will be giving you some of our best advice and helpful tips in every blog article. These are all of the marriage things we have been thinking about and teaching about. These articles are all intended to help you have a better and more fulfilling marriage by giving you lots to talk about.

PRO TIP: Read each article as a couple (about one per week) and use the article as a discussion starter between the two of you. Most of these articles include some discussion questions that are a perfect way for you and your spouse to dig a little deeper.

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If You Can Learn To THINK Before You Speak, You will Be Much Happier!
by Brad & Tami Miller

We cannot tell you how many times a well-meaning husband or wife has said to us something like, "I should be able to say whatever is on my mind to my spouse." To which we might respond, "How is that working out for you?" Their usual answer is, "Not very well, I guess." We all tend to think that true love between a husband and a wife will allow them to be completely honest with each other, no matter how much that "truth" might sting…

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Keeping Score In Your Marriage Will Rarely Get You What You Want
by Brad & Tami Miller

Daily scorekeeping is a very real part of life for most people. We keep score on all kinds of things without ever realizing it. Daily scorekeeping can look like:

  • Am I doing better at my job than ________________ is?
  • I sure hope my favorite team makes it to the playoffs.
  • My car may be a little dirty, but it's not as dirty as that other person's car.
  • I wish I could get as many social media followers (or likes) as _________________.
  • One of my children concisely gets grades that are below my other child…
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MARRIAGE TOOLBOX - Timeouts Aren't Just For Kids
by Brad & Tami Miller

This article is the start of a new series we are devoting to building up your "marriage toolbox." So often, when we are working with a couple as their marriage coaches, they will say at some point, "We just need some good marriage tools." And while it is true that good marriage tools are a must, learning to use them correctly can make all the difference. After all, if we are talking about needing some actual tools for your actual toolbox…

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